It takes something major to happen before you will change you ways!

Many people have huge life changing events, for example, my brother is 23, a couple months ago he was drunk driving with his best friend. When they left the house to go drive they felt sober, but it was halfway through their destination that the rum kicked in and it was while they were going way to fast around a curve. They blacked out and flipped the car 7 times, a car accident that should have killed both of them, but only left my brother with a couple scratches and bruises, his best friend however flew out of the sunroof, has his back broken in 2 different places, his wrist broken in 9 different places, his arm was broken, his shoulder was broken along with his collar bone and is now in a body brace for a year, but thankfully can still walk around. neither of them were wearing seat belts. There is no doubt in my mind that this accident would have killed them both, but instead of killing them I think it was just gods way of putting them through something so dramatic that it will change the way the think about things before they do them from now on.